I JUST DON'T GET IT!

The Psychology of Love, Relationships, Dating, and even just Casual Sex is stimulating in the sense that if we can understand the psychology of these things, then to a degree we have the ability to control our LOVE LIFE, MARRIAGE, DATING EXPERIENCE, and generally be able to attain DESIRABLE SEX PARTNERS.

In Dating, Online chat, and in just everyday meeting people we come in contact with so many different personalities. Some we love and others we don't care for very much.

At the point when we meet people and come in contact with these various personalities is when we have the option to go forth or to decline. If a person understands a few basic things about the psychology of people then that person can make a better and more informed decision as to what another persons qualities are and if these qualities are genuine.

When speaking to someone watch and listen for elusive behavioral patterns in questions about themselves. Ask yourself or ask them questions about "why" in regards to any information that they give you. If a person is offended by the "why" then it's obvious they're trying to keep something private. Then ask yourself "why is this person trying to keep this private?" Then ask yourself is it something that you would want to keep private. Listen to the persons testimonials in detail. "Does it sound a little animated or exagerrated?" Key points of a story will indicate if it was fabricated or is indeed the truth.

Only a weak person can be controlled with what's between his/her mates legs. If your desire is to have a mentally enfeebled and incompetent mate, then use what you got! If your lover, mate, or significant other does things that you desire because you give him/her the goods, what do you think they'll do when someone else gives them the goods. A person can only get so far with using sex to control another person. If you're looking for a mate that you want to hold on to for a while, maybe even possibly marry, you need to go a different route.

Controlling a person begins at the meeting point. First, tell the truth. It's ok to leave some more private things out for later conversations but what does come out of your mouth, let it be fact. Second and very far from last, let it be known when you disagree. However, disagree in a calm, casual, and respectable manner. Also, elaborate on why you disagree. Not because you want the other person to agree with you but to help them better understand your disagreement and be at peace with it. People have different views on things regardless as to being in a relationship or not. These things build trust. Trust is the first factor in controlling your mate, lover, date, significant other, or sex partner.