I JUST DON'T GET IT!

The Psychology of Love, Relationships, Dating, and even just Casual Sex is stimulating in the sense that if we can understand the psychology of these things, then to a degree we have the ability to control our LOVE LIFE, MARRIAGE, DATING EXPERIENCE, and generally be able to attain DESIRABLE SEX PARTNERS.

In Dating, Online chat, and in just everyday meeting people we come in contact with so many different personalities. Some we love and others we don't care for very much.

At the point when we meet people and come in contact with these various personalities is when we have the option to go forth or to decline. If a person understands a few basic things about the psychology of people then that person can make a better and more informed decision as to what another persons qualities are and if these qualities are genuine.

When speaking to someone watch and listen for elusive behavioral patterns in questions about themselves. Ask yourself or ask them questions about "why" in regards to any information that they give you. If a person is offended by the "why" then it's obvious they're trying to keep something private. Then ask yourself "why is this person trying to keep this private?" Then ask yourself is it something that you would want to keep private. Listen to the persons testimonials in detail. "Does it sound a little animated or exagerrated?" Key points of a story will indicate if it was fabricated or is indeed the truth.

Only a weak person can be controlled with what's between his/her mates legs. If your desire is to have a mentally enfeebled and incompetent mate, then use what you got! If your lover, mate, or significant other does things that you desire because you give him/her the goods, what do you think they'll do when someone else gives them the goods. A person can only get so far with using sex to control another person. If you're looking for a mate that you want to hold on to for a while, maybe even possibly marry, you need to go a different route.

Controlling a person begins at the meeting point. First, tell the truth. It's ok to leave some more private things out for later conversations but what does come out of your mouth, let it be fact. Second and very far from last, let it be known when you disagree. However, disagree in a calm, casual, and respectable manner. Also, elaborate on why you disagree. Not because you want the other person to agree with you but to help them better understand your disagreement and be at peace with it. People have different views on things regardless as to being in a relationship or not. These things build trust. Trust is the first factor in controlling your mate, lover, date, significant other, or sex partner.

IN THE HEARTS AND MINDS OF MEN

LISTEN!
What I am going to say to you now is not difficult to understand. It is very simple. To understand me, you must know what I am.
It was planned for me to be the way that I am since before my time. I have been this way since the beginning of my existence. My existence began with the creation of man.
I have learned a lot coming through the years. I have adapted and adjusted. However, I have not changed. It is only my environment that has changed.
There are only a few very important things you must know to understand me.

I THINK ABOUT SURVIVAL
I THINK ABOUT PLEASURE AND REPRODUCTION
I WILL KILL YOU

When I awake in the morning, I think about how I am going to make it through the day and to the next. Sometimes this is planned ahead. This is my survival. My survival is my existence.
Once the day is secure, I think about my pleasure and reproduction. My pleasure is my sanity. My reproducing is to further continue my existence.
If at any time any of this is threatened or jeopardized, within my survival is an instinct that causes me to be defensive and offensive even to the point of death.

I SAY TO YOU WOMAN and even some confused and disturbed men trying to figure me out, I have always been this way. I CANNOT CHANGE. This is not what I have chosen. It was decided for me long ago.
It is a must that I rule. This gives me better control over my existence. Therefore, I HAVE BEEN DECLARED KING. I have no say in this matter.
There is a position for the woman. It is called QUEEN.
Yes, the queen does rule. However, SHE RULES UNDER THE KING. Which means she still serves the king.

The man possesses things the woman does not. The woman possesses things the man does not. This is why we have our respective positions. A woman has the natural instinct to love and to nourish. The man has the instinct to control. Together we create a perfect balance in the kingdom.
WHAT THE QUEEN MUST UNDERSTAND IS THAT SHE HAS AN OPINION THAT IS GREATLY VALUED and the king listens. However, SHE MUST ALSO UNDERSTAND THAT THE KING HAS THE SAY.
The king will sometimes make a decision based on how the queen feels and based on her opinion. This has been mistakenly taken by the queen that she can rule as the king does. She feels that she can fill the crown because she has filled her own. She feels that because she has accomplished many tasks and achieved many goals that she is worthy.
SHE IS WORTHY OF QUEEN AND QUEEN ONLY!
A woman feels that because she can do things that a man does she is equal. Forgive me, YOU ARE NOT.

The queen knows this and it has driven her mad. She has become manipulative and causes chaos in the kingdom. Her attempts to delude the king, for the benefit of her equality, proves her to be disloyal. This imbalance threatens the kings survival and the queen must be done away with.
We as men, as kings, have no say in this. Women have no say in this. Our positions were chosen before our time.

IT'S NOT WHO I AM, IT'S WHAT I AM.
I AM MAN, I AM KING, WITHIN ME IS A BEAST!